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		<title>10 Facts about your appetite that may help while getting skinny. Lose Weight</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I like the &#8220;Hunger is the physiological need for food, whereas appetite is the psychological desire to eat.&#8221; &#160; James A. Peterson, Ph.D., FACSM, Oct 31 2011 1. Natural desire. The appetite is the desire an individual has to eat food, felt as hunger. Existing in all higher life forms, appetite serves to help regulate adequate energy…]]></description>
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<p>James A. Peterson, Ph.D., FACSM, Oct 31 2011</p>
<p>1. Natural desire. The appetite is the desire an individual has to eat food, felt as hunger. Existing in all higher life forms, appetite serves to help regulate adequate energy intake to maintain the body’s metabolic needs. A person’s appetite is regulated by an immensely complex process involving the gastrointestinal tract, numerous hormones, and both the central and autonomic nervous systems.</p>
<p>2. Clear cravings. Although both hunger and appetite determine what, when, and why individuals eat, the two states are different. Hunger is the physiological need for food, whereas appetite is the psychological desire to eat. Appetite is linked with sensory experience or aspects of food (e.g., sight and smell of food), emotional cues, social situations, and cultural customs.</p>
<p>3. Inconclusive proof. No definitive evidence exists showing that exercise always increases or always decreases appetite to any noteworthy degree. As a rule, the enegy requirement that occurs during regular exercise more than makes up for any slight increase (if any) a person might experience in appetite. In fact, how an individual’s appetite responds to exercise depends on several variables including the following: frequency, duration, and intensity of exercise; metabolic rate; body fat accumulation; and amount and type of food available after exercise.</p>
<p>4. Hidden casualty. A person may experience a loss of appetite for a number of reasons, including depression, boredom, loneliness, chronic illness, and taking certain medications. The key to dealing with such circumstances is to recognize that such a scenario is not normal, take steps to identify the causes for the reduced appetite, and deal with the relevant factors in an appropriate manner.</p>
<p>5. Kid’s stuff. Some children have a greater appetite than others. This situation is normal. Because children &#8220;grow&#8221; at different rates, some kids need more energy intake and some need less. As a rule, parents don’t have to worry about their child’s appetite as long as their child’s weight is normal, activity level is good, and food choices are fitting.</p>
<p>6. Prime-time dilemma. Older people often experience a reduction in their appetite. Many individuals, as they age, tend to lose a measurable degree of their sense of taste and smell &#8211; a loss that, in turn, causes a loss of appetite. Regrettably, many of these individuals turn to foods high in either sugar or salt in a misguided effort to conserve food that has &#8220;flavor&#8221; for them.</p>
<p>7. Not the same for men and women. Canadian researchers (Laval University) found that ingesting caffeine 30 minutes before a meal resulted in men consuming 22% less energy. Ingesting 300 mg of caffeine (in this instance, an amount equal to three cups of coffee or 4.5 cans of soda) activates a man’s sympathetic nervous system, thereby increasing his energy expenditure. Unlike men, women, on the other hand, do not eat less when they consume caffeine because they tend to conserve energy when their systems are triggered.</p>
<p>8. What a drag. Among the symptoms that people often experience after quitting smoking is to confuse their craving for cigarettes for hunger pangs. In response, they eat more than they otherwise would. The recommended approach to cope with these pangs is to drink water or low-energy drinks and eat low-energy snacks.</p>
<p>9. Sugar low. Because their body’s cells cannot get enough glucose for energy, individuals who have diabetes often feel like they do not have enough energy. As a result, they experience an increased appetite.</p>
<p>10. Bottomless sushi pit. The average blue whale (the largest animal in theworld) eats up to two and a half tons of krill (a type of shrimp) a day. The whale’s voracious appetite generates an intake of approximately 1,825,000 lbs of food a year &#8211; an amount that would easily supply the annual energy needs of an entire small town (or the average National Football League football team).</p>
<p><em>James A. Peterson, Ph.D., FACSM, is a freelance writer and consultant in sports medicine. From 1990 until 1995, Dr. Peterson was director of sports medicine with StairMaster. Until that time, he was professor of physical education at the United States Military Academy.</em></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Looking to the Dietary Gods: Eating Well According to the Ancients131 Comments http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/2011/07/08/looking-to-the-dietary-gods-eating-well-according-to-the-ancients/#more-5654 Written by Tim FerrissTopics: Practical Philosophy (Photo: H.Koppdelaney) Just a few weeks ago, I received the following from Ryan Holiday: “…in the last 6 months, I’ve lost 15 lbs and am in the best shape of my life. From adding in sprinting to my running regime,…]]></description>
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<p>Written by <a title="Posts by Tim Ferriss" rel="author" href="http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/author/admin/">Tim Ferriss</a>Topics: <a title="View all posts in Practical Philosophy" rel="category tag" href="http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/category/practical-philosophy/">Practical Philosophy</a></p>
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<p>Just a few weeks ago, I received the following from <a href="http://www.ryanholiday.net/" target="_blank">Ryan Holiday</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>“…in the last 6 months, I’ve lost 15 lbs and am in the best shape of my life. From adding in sprinting to my running regime, using kettle bells once a week, using a weighted vest while taking long walks, and the cat vomit exercise, I now have abs and — like I said — lost weight in places I didn’t know I was storing fat. It was all from your book and keeping to the slow-carb diet. Here’s the part I really have to thank you for: by changing the way I thought about running, I ran the fastest mile in my life, and that’s after four years of cross country and track in high school. Last Friday, I ran a 4:55 mile. A month before my 24th birthday, I shattered my all time best from track: 5:02. Being that close to breaking five minutes had always haunted me.”</p></blockquote>
<p>Those of you who’ve read this blog for a while know that Ryan is 24-years old and works directly with Dov Charney as his online strategist for American Apparel. He takes more heat, makes more high-stakes decisions, and takes more risks in a given week than most people experience in any given quarter… and he does so with an unusual calm. Unbeknownst to most, he largely credits this ability to his study of Stoicism, among other practical philosophies.</p>
<p>How did this philosophical bent accelerate his physical changes?…</p>
<p>Ryan made the above progress, in part, because he looked at how to transform choices related to food into a vehicle for larger transformation. If you want incentives to change, losing an additional 10 pounds oftentimes just doesn’t cut it.</p>
<p>So let us look to the ancients.</p>
<p>This guest post from Ryan explores his thinking and features wisdom from Epicurus, Seneca, Epictetus, the Spartans, Montaigne and others.</p>
<h3>Enter Ryan Holiday</h3>
<p>I’ve been grappling with a dilemma.</p>
<p>It’s a philosophical problem that’s thousands of years old, but fresh in an age of obesity, eating disorders and widespread factory farming: how does eating fit into the so-called “good life”?</p>
<p>What does our diet have to say about our ethics and priorities? The world seems broken down into two camps: those that rarely give the connection a second thought, and those who care too much. Could there be a better way?</p>
<p>And so I sought out the answer in the best way I knew how—by looking to the masters.</p>
<p>A student once asked Epictetus how he ought to eat. This, Epictetus replied, was simple. The right way to eat is the same as the right way to live: be “just, cheerful, equable, temperate, and orderly.” He meant that meals embody the principles and the disposition of the person who eats them. Food means choices and choices mean a chance to fulfill our principles. [So think: being thankful, eating just what you need, tipping generously, caring about where it comes from and how it got there.]</p>
<p>Epictetus was not alone. Philosophers have been experimenting with food for centuries in hopes of finding the best ways to be healthy and to enjoy life. (Seneca, for instance, was once a vegetarian for a year.) They sought to curb the impulse to gluttony just as strongly as they fought the urge to obsess over their weight and appearance. They looked to minimize harm and to live in accordance with nature—just as we wonder about animal cruelty or shop organic today. Ultimately, they understood that everything we do—especially something with life or death implications like diet—is a platform for philosophy, that something you do at least three times a day is worth doing well.</p>
<p>By “well”, do I mean <em>healthy</em>? Or well, as in <em>luxuriously</em>? In fact, I mean both. In this short article, we’ll examine eating “well” through three lenses: ethics, discipline (restraint and release), and health. It’s my hope that you’ll then realize that eating well is not just compatible with the philosophic life, but an integral and essential part of it. And conveniently, it has been baked into the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/030746363X/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=offsitoftimfe-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399369&amp;creativeASIN=030746363X" target="_blank">The 4-Hour Body</a> and slow-carb diet lessons.</p>
<p><strong>1) Ethics</strong></p>
<p>The ethics of what we eat is well-trod ground, as vegetarians and vegans constantly point out.</p>
<p>But I think Montaigne expressed the philosophy best when he reminded himself that he not only owed kindness and justice to his fellow man, but to animals capable of receiving the same.</p>
<p>Notice how different this is from most attitudes about food. Justice means doing what is fair and reasoned; kindness means empathy and consideration. Most discussions about diet (from paleo to veganism) are pervasively selfish: <em>‘But what can I have for dessert?’ ‘Sorry, I don’t consume diary.’ ‘Am I allowed to have this?’</em> Rarely: ‘is eating this the <em>right thing to do?’</em> We too quickly condemn what might be best for our health, or conversely assume that the optimal nutrition for us trumps any obligations we have as people. Montaigne reminds us of our real obligations, that we should always try to do what is fair and just—what we can look ourselves in the mirror and be okay with afterward.</p>
<p>It’s a question I faced after reading Jonathan Foer’s wonderful book <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0316069884/offsitoftimfe-20" target="_blank">Eating Animals</a></em>. I knew vaguely that the horrors of slaughterhouses existed and that I could find hundreds of slaughterhouse abuse videos on YouTube in a second or read the flyers PETA gives out, but I deliberately chose not to. In avoiding them, I made the tacit admission that something was wrong, while refusing to examine that feeling further. There is the story of a Spartan King who met two of his subjects, a youth and the youth’s lover, accidentally in a crowd. Embarrassed, the subjects tried to hide their blushing cheeks, but he noticed and replied, “Son, you ought to keep the company of the sort of people who won’t cause you to change color when observed.”</p>
<p>By eating well, we can be proud and transparent, rather than secretly uncomfortable. For starters, by eating more naturally (protein-dense, appropriate portions), we reduce our footprint—the amount we ask of the world to give us. By caring about the quality of what we ingest, we opt out of brutal factory farming and toxic industrial agriculture—keeping excessive blood off our hands. And by eating locally, we support small businesses and entrepreneurs instead of corporate behemoths who have few qualms about poisoning and fattening us (by doing the same to their “product”) if it means greater profits.</p>
<p>Philosophy gives us the tools to root around within ourselves and find these inconsistencies. We can put them out in the open and resolve them. There is something deeply troubling about a system that drives us to obscure the sources of our food. It asks us to not think of what we are eating or why. I don’t arrive at the same conclusions as Foer (vegetarianism), but I made a commitment after reading it, to eat the healthiest diet I could, as honorably and justly as was possible. I’m comfortable looking in the mirror after eating meat from farms like Niman Ranch or Good Shepherd Heritage Poultry. (thanks <a href="http://rarecuts.com/" target="_blank">RareCuts.com</a>!) If I don’t have access to these, it means I must go without, which is not a problem because philosophy helps there as well.</p>
<p><strong>2) Discipline (Restraint and Release)</strong></p>
<p>The Stoics avoided pleasure to prepare for adversity. The Epicureans enjoyed pleasure to help get them through adversity. As with most things, the best option for most people is somewhere in between.</p>
<p>Treat yourself to good meals so you don’t covet and crave them (Tim’s cheat days); learn to love simple foods and they’ll become all you need to be happy. And of course, the Cynics practiced a third way: they saw through the whole charade. Food is just dead animals, they said, plants and liquids we’re eventually going to excrete. No need to get excited nor stressed.</p>
<p>Cumulatively, these three schools all realized that it was important to be disciplined and in control of yourself in normal situations, so that you can develop the coping skills to deal with difficult situations. Modern science adds another layer of insight when it shows us that <a href="http://faculty.washington.edu/jdb/345/345%20Articles/Baumeister%20et%20al.%20(1998).pdf">self-control is a finite resource.</a> Subjects who are forced to resist eating fresh-baked cookies, for example, give up on tough math problems more quickly and have trouble sticking with other tasks. This is definitely not the right attitude if you want to be introspective, dedicated and hardworking. So here we have the the real genius of Tim’s “Cheat Days” and the Epicurean concept of enjoying the little things—it’s an outlet for release that makes discipline easier.</p>
<p>Practicing restraint and targeted release is a deeply philosophic exercise. It means being in tune with your body and living naturally. These are two things that are increasingly difficult in a world of plenty. To be able to say “no,” knowing that what may feel good now will actually feel bad later, is to master the self. To be able to reward the self with simple pleasures is to successful navigate the fine line between self-control and self-flagellation.</p>
<p>Cicero wrote that “need is what provides the seasoning for any and every appetite.” He was observing a truism that was old even in his day–that the most enjoyable meals are not the most expensive or exotic, but come at some moment we never expected. After being sick for a long time, at the end of a long hard day or even, perhaps, not even food but a drink when we are incredibly thirsty. Discipline provide a bit extra seasoning we can add to every single thing that we consume. And if could make the notorious<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_soup">Spartan black broth</a> digestible, it can work for us in our comfy nerfy-lives.</p>
<p><strong>3) Health</strong></p>
<p>Of course, eating well and being healthy go hand in hand. But philosophers have stressed this connection for reasons you may not expect.</p>
<p>The right diet is important not because it helps you live longer, they are quick to point out, but because it makes you a better philosopher. Think about what a better person you could be if you didn’t fucking hate yourself after gorging your face at a dinner, or feel sick and bloated with gluten, to which you’re allergic. If you felt in control of, and confident about, your body instead of lethargic and dissatisfied. Jumping these dietary hurdles is, in effect, a dress rehearsal for awareness in other areas. How much easier would it then be to be empathic, kind and generous? To focus on other people with energy that’s no longer directed at your own problems?</p>
<p>A healthy man can help others better and longer. Anntonius the Pious, one of the truly great Roman Emperors, kept a simple diet so he could work from dawn to dusk with as few bathroom interruptions as possible—so he could be at the service of the people for longer. And as Seneca wrote to a friend, the better you eat, the less you need to exercise, thus leaving more time for philosophy. Our keen edge, he said, is too often dulled by heavy eating and then wasted further as we drain our life-force in exercise trying to work it off. It’s ironic and sad how many people think they eat well (whole grains, carbs and fruits) but really sentence themselves to needless time at the gym. Imagine what would have come of that time if spent doing good for themselves and others.</p>
<p>We all know that eating healthily is good, but too often we forget why. It is not just about us. It’s about our place in the world and the role we need to fulfill. Like a soldier’s diet, our choices about food help us with the job we must do, and if we waver in our dietary decisions, we may come up empty at a critical moment elsewhere.</p>
<p>An Athenian statesman once attended a dinner party put on by Plato. When he met his host again, he is reported to have said “Plato, your dinners are enjoyable not only when one is eating them, but on the morning after as well.” The man’s point was that he’d felt good the next day too. He was sharp and ready to go instead of a miserable bloated mess. To me, this is a host and a guest understanding the proper role of food, health and pleasure in our lives</p>
<p><strong>Conclusion:</strong></p>
<p>We live incredibly unnatural, stressful lives in increasingly unhealthy times.</p>
<p>The Japanese novelist and runner Haruki Murakami has a theory along the following lines: an unhealthy soul [whether deliberate or from external forces] requires a healthy body. How we treat this bit of flesh we’ve been given says a lot about what we will become on the inside.</p>
<p>Put in a more uplifting light, in such a crazy world, we need to utilize every positive counterweight we can. Eating well is one powerful option.</p>
<p>The benefits aren’t just physical, but also emotional and even existential. Some of the most important moments in my life and career have come at dinners with friends. I think back on these meals, like an Epicurean, and I can savor the the taste all over again. No matter where I am, what I am going through or how long ago it was, I always have this to turn to, to lean on, to enjoy.</p>
<p>By leaning on the masters, who have meditated with this topic for centuries, we find age-old but fresh perspectives. I followed their lead and began thinking philosophically about food–that is, trying to eat both naturally, reasonably and ethically–and I saw drastic changes. I am in the best shape of my life physically and mentally.</p>
<p>And this is why Philosophy is so important. Because it can turn a simple thing like eating into a lens for viewing the world, a path to what we all want: the good life.</p>
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<p>In my first company, I had built a polling application that was doing decently as a social website on college campuses and as a Facebook app.  We were working hard to think of new ways to acquire customers&#8230;classic B2C type stuff.  We had some connections to IBM and we started talking with them about how we could sell them on our platform.  Somewhere along the way, we thought that this app could be a great fit for enterprises as well.  Some kind of internal productivity app.<br />
Let me repeat that.  We were going to sell apps to IBM.</p>
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IBM toured me around the company with tons of conference calls.  I made proposals, calculated estimated costs, built mockups.  I worked my ass off.  I reached out to my advisors for help on the sales materials to make them perfect.  As money in my company was dwindling down, I stopped paying myself.  I was on the verge of closing a deal with IBM and optimistic that we would make it through.  We eventually did run out of money, so I funded the company a few more months on my own.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Finally, I pushed for a go/no-go meeting with IBM.  After months of talking and lots of excitement, my IBM contact said they were still interested by wouldn&#8217;t have a budget for the product.  They said check back next fiscal year.&nbsp;</p>
<p>A sad ending to my little company.  We struggled another few weeks on our B2C strategy.  But we were done.  And it was my fault.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Not because I failed to close IBM.  I know now that we were never going to close IBM.  IBM doesn&#8217;t do deals with startups.  They were happy to give an eager young entrepreneur a bit of their time, but they never had any intention of writing a check for our services. I should have never gone down that road at all.  Who knows if we would&#8217;ve been successful with our consumer apps, but I can say for sure that we would have had a better chance of success if we hadn&#8217;t gotten so distracted with IBM.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Now, I know as an entrepreneur, I&#8217;m supposed to break down walls and do things that others don&#8217;t think is possible.  But seriously, was this really the best use of our time?  I had no experience with enterprise software or B2B sales.  Our product wasn&#8217;t even really a good fit.  AND IBM?!  With 20/20 hindsight, I can&#8217;t think of a worse company to sell into.  They&#8217;re big.  They&#8217;re slow.  And wait for it&#8230;they&#8217;re a fucking tech company!  Why would they ever need our help?&nbsp;</p>
<p>To be clear, this little strategic misstep was 100% my fault.  I pushed for it.  I was naive.  And I paid the price for my suckiness.&nbsp;</p>
<p>But I got so much help along the way.  Advisers that proofed my proposals, answered my questions.  They mentored me.  They cared about me and wanted me to feel good.&nbsp;</p>
<p>This is hard to say, but I wish they had believed in me less.  Encouraged me less.  Supported me less.  I wish someone, anyone, had put a stop to my foolish ideas.  I&#8217;m incredibly confident and stubborn.  I believe I can do anything.  So additional support is kind of wasted on me.  What I really needed is someone that could break through my confidence and tell me straight that I was being an idiot.&nbsp;</p>
<p>It is possible to be this type of adviser.  I now ask better questions of my advisors and explicitly welcome their roughest criticisms.  I gravitate towards those advisers that rip into me with skepticism and challenging questions.  One of my oldest friends has been that adviser for years.  He never believes a word I say.  He pushes me to be better.  I love that.</p>
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<p>Now, when I advise entrepreneurs, I try to help in any way I can.  If I don&#8217;t believe something, I don&#8217;t hold back.  It&#8217;s not easy.  I actually would rather be supportive, but I know that the marketplace is not supportive.  It&#8217;s unfeeling, never satisfied, and totally merciless.  Better to get tough feedback now, rather than fail later.&nbsp;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been working with one young entrepreneur that is starting a fundraising round and wanted advice on his pitch deck.  He&#8217;s waaaaaay too early to be fundraising.  He should be spending 100% of his time building his product and pursuing traction—not wasting time with endless coffee chats and pitch deck making.  He&#8217;s a stubborn guy (most good entrepreneurs are&#8230;) so it was pretty hard to get through.  But, man did I rip into him.  I mean, <em>he came to me</em> for advice, so I wasn&#8217;t going to hold back.&nbsp;</p>
<p>I felt bad afterwards.  And for a minute, I wished that I had been more supportive.  But only for a minute. This was his response the next day:</p></div>
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<em>Thanks for the advice a few nights ago, it was a much needed smack upside the head.  Thanks for being the voice of reason&#8211;a lot of our friends gave us good tips on how to make a nice pitch but you&#8217;re the only one who was like &#8220;what are you doing? why do you need money? stop this!&#8221; and it looks like that is probably the right question.</em></div>
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<div>Thank you so much for all your support.  I really do appreciate it.  You&#8217;re an incredible part of my life and I hope, if you just read this, you don&#8217;t view me as unappreciative. And the next time you beat the shit out of me with your skepticism&#8230;Thank you.&nbsp;</p>
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<p>I would also greatly appreciate introductions to potential advisors.  We&#8217;re not fundraising until the spring, but I&#8217;m happy to &#8216;get coffee&#8217; with people who are interested in getting to know us.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[LeAnn Rimes: Weight Loss Is &#8220;a Natural Progression of Life&#8221; HEALTHY LIFESTYLEOCTOBER 6, 2011 AT 7:13PMBY USWEEKLY STAFF Credit: Paul Archuleta/FilmMagic LeAnn Rimes&#8217; highs and lows aren&#8217;t limited to her personal life. Eddie Cibrian&#8216;s wife, 29, says her weight has definitely gone up and down, but she doesn&#8217;t see this as a reason to be concerned.…]]></description>
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<p><strong>LeAnn Rimes&#8217;</strong> highs and lows aren&#8217;t limited to her personal life.</p>
<p><strong>Eddie Cibrian</strong>&#8216;s wife, 29, says her weight has definitely gone up and down, but she doesn&#8217;t see this as a reason to be concerned.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.usmagazine.com/healthylifestyle/photos/leann-rimes-scary-slimdown-2011136/15582" target="_blank">PHOTOS: LeAnn&#8217;s scary slimdown</a></p>
<p>&#8220;[When I] was going through a divorce and I couldn&#8217;t get out of bed&#8230; I gained 10 pounds, and then I lost 10 pounds because now I&#8217;m moving around and I&#8217;m working,&#8221; she told the <em><a href="http://news.yahoo.com/leann-rimes-accepts-tabloid-fascination-now-132510848.html" target="_blank">Associated Press</a></em> in an interview published Thursday. &#8220;I don&#8217;t stop, and no one sees that [weight loss[ actually can happen like naturally. It's a natural progression of life."</p>
<p>"It has to be some big deal and some issue," the country star <a href="http://news.yahoo.com/leann-rimes-accepts-tabloid-fascination-now-132510848.html" target="_blank">said</a>. "I'm glad there are people out there that are smarter than that and they don't buy into it."</p>
<p><a href="http://www.usmagazine.com/healthylifestyle/photos/stars-who-battled-eating-disorders-201128/16425" target="_blank">PHOTOS: Stars who've battled eating disorders</a></p>
<p>"I was told when I was little I couldn't have an opinion because you want everyone to buy your record and like you," she said. "I'm not gonna apologize for who I am and what I've gone through. We all are human."</p>
<p><a href="http://www.usmagazine.com/healthylifestyle/photos/leann-and-eddies-controversial-love-2010258/9782" target="_blank">PHOTOS: LeAnn and Eddie's road to romance</a></p>
<p>In an interview with <em>The Ellen DeGeneres Show</em> last month, Rimes addressed the rumors that she was struggling with an eating disorder. "[The press has] been very irresponsible [about] calling a lot of people fat or anorexic or bulimic or whatever it may be,&#8221; she said. &#8220;It seems like bullying now instead of really taking these diseases seriously that a lot of people are going through.&#8221;</p>
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<p>In a society where it is deemed desirable to be skinny it is little wonder that so many people obsess about their size and weight. At the same time as trying to remain or become slim people face many temptations which make maintaining their weight goals extremely challenging &#8211; there are many calorific foods out there which provide little <a id="itxthook0" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.helium.com/items/1471947-how-weight-loss-can-take-over-your-life#">nutrition</a> but taste good, whilst portion sizes have increased substantially over the years. Stress is a problem faced by many people which can impact upon their weight, as they reach for comfort food. Also most people are not as active as they should be which can obviously lead to <a href="http://diets.helium.com/topic/7325-weight-gain">weight gain</a> if they are not burning off all the calories they consume.<a href="http://diets.helium.com/topic/3720-weight-loss">Weight loss</a> requires you to make significant changes to your lifestyle, and can become your whole focus if you don&#8217;t keep the process of losing weight in perspective.</p>
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<p>It is particularly difficult to focus on anything other than your weight when you are following a fad diet. Fad<a id="itxthook1" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.helium.com/items/1471947-how-weight-loss-can-take-over-your-life#">diets</a> are generally based on restrictive eating practices, and so you will constantly be thinking about what you can and cannot eat. Also, because you consume so few calories on such a diet you will be constantly hungry, lethargic, and irritable, and the only thing keeping you going will be the thought of stepping on the scales to see a huge<a href="http://diets.helium.com/topic/3720-weight-loss">weight loss</a> or finding that your trousers have grown too big for you. Therefore your whole day is framed around when you next get to eat and what you are allowed to eat and what the results will be for your waistline at the end of the day.</p>
<p>Even simply incorporating <a id="itxthook2" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.helium.com/items/1471947-how-weight-loss-can-take-over-your-life#">healthier lifestyle</a> habits in order to <a href="http://diets.helium.com/topic/5696-lose-weight">lose weight</a> can lead you to become obsessive, though maybe not as much as in the case of fad diets. You will probably make a note of all the foods that you eat, and start to examine the nutritional content of everything you put in your mouth so that you know how many calories everything contains. The chances are that you will plan your meals in advance so that you can stay in control of everything you eat, and rather than grazing on food all day you will have set meal times, which means you might constantly be thinking about the next time you get to eat.</p>
<p>Weight loss can take over your life as whether you <a id="itxthook3" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.helium.com/items/1471947-how-weight-loss-can-take-over-your-life#">feel good</a> or bad about yourself can depend on what the number reads on the scales. If you don&#8217;t lose any weight you might be tempted to give up following a healthier diet, if you are taking a sensible approach to weight loss in the first place, and thus sabotage all your weight-loss efforts by seeking solace in comfort food. Even then, though, you can&#8217;t get your weight out of you head, and simply end up feeling guilty and preparing yourself to start again next week. Sometimes you find that exercise can release you of some of the guilt but actually become obsessed with exercising every day so that you can eat more.</p>
<p>It is therefore important for people to find a balance in their lives so that weight loss isn&#8217;t always at the forefront of their minds, since weight loss should be about re-establishing control over your weight; not letting your obsession with your weight control you.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve seen this to be true over the last 20 years. Know your business and make sure you give your opinion and try to help your customer understand. Great article. &#160; &#160; HBR Blog Network MATTHEW DIXON AND BRENT ADAMSON &#160; Matthew Dixon is Managing Director of the Corporate Executive Board&#8217;s Sales and Service Practice. Brent Adamson…]]></description>
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<p>Matthew Dixon is Managing Director of the Corporate Executive Board&#8217;s <a href="http://www.executiveboard.com/sales-marketing/">Sales and Service Practice</a>. Brent Adamson is Senior Director of the <a href="https://sec.executiveboard.com/Public/Default.aspx">Sales Executive Council</a>, a division of the Sales and Service Practice. Their new book, <em><a href="http://www.executiveboard.com/challenger/">The Challenger Sale: Taking Control of the Customer Conversation</a></em>, is forthcoming November 10, 2011 from Portfolio/Penguin.</p>
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<p>Ask any sales leader how selling has changed in the past decade, and you&#8217;ll hear a lot of answers but only one recurring theme: It&#8217;s a lot harder. Yet even in these difficult times, every sales organization has a few stellar performers. Who are these people? How can we bottle their magic?</p>
<p>To understand what sets apart this special group of sales reps, the Sales Executive Council launched a global study of sales rep productivity three years ago involving more than 6,000 reps across nearly 100 companies in multiple industries.</p>
<p>We now have an answer, which we&#8217;ve captured in the following three insights:</p>
<p><strong>1. Every sales professional falls into one of five distinct profiles</strong>.</p>
<p>Quantitatively speaking, just about every B2B sales rep in the world is one of the following types, characterized by a specific set of skills and behaviors that defines the rep&#8217;s primary mode of interacting with customers:</p>
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<li><strong><strong>Relationship Builders</strong> </strong>focus on developing strong personal and professional relationships and advocates across the customer organization. They are generous with their time, strive to meet customers&#8217; every need, and work hard to resolve tensions in the commercial relationship.</li>
<li><strong><strong>Hard Workers</strong></strong> show up early, stay late, and always go the extra mile. They&#8217;ll make more calls in an hour and conduct more visits in a week than just about anyone else on the team.</li>
<li><strong><strong>Lone Wolves</strong></strong> are the deeply self-confident, the rule-breaking cowboys of the sales force who do things their way or not at all.</li>
<li><strong><strong>Reactive Problem Solvers</strong></strong> are, from the customers&#8217; standpoint, highly reliable and detail-oriented. They focus on post-sales follow-up, ensuring that service issues related to implementation and execution are addressed quickly and thoroughly.</li>
<li><strong><strong>Challengers</strong></strong> use their deep understanding of their customers&#8217; business to push their thinking and take control of the sales conversation. They&#8217;re not afraid to share even potentially controversial views and are assertive — with both their customers and bosses.</li>
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<p><strong>2. Challengers dramatically outperform the other profiles, particularly Relationship Builders.</strong></p>
<p>When we look at average reps, we find a fairly even distribution across all five of these profiles. But while there may be five ways to be average, there&#8217;s only one way to be a star. We found that Challenger reps dominate the high-performer population, making up close to 40% of star reps in our study.</p>
<p>What makes the Challenger approach different?</p>
<p>The data tell us that these reps are defined by three key capabilities:</p>
<p><strong>Challengers teach their customers</strong>. They focus the sales conversation not on features and benefits but on insight, bringing a unique (and typically provocative) perspective on the customer&#8217;s business. They come to the table with new ideas for their customers that can make money or save money — often opportunities the customer hadn&#8217;t realized even existed.</p>
<p><strong>Challengers tailor their sales message to the customer</strong> They have a finely tuned sense of individual customer objectives and value drivers and use this knowledge to effectively position their sales pitch to different types of customer stakeholders within the organization.</p>
<p><strong>Challengers take control of the sale.</strong> While not aggressive, they are certainly assertive. They are comfortable with tension and are unlikely to acquiesce to every customer demand. When necessary, they can press customers a bit — not just in terms of their thinking but around things like price.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ll discuss each of these capabilities in more depth in our upcoming posts, but just as surprising as it is that Challengers win, it&#8217;s almost more eye-opening who loses. In our study, Relationship Builders come in dead last, accounting for only 7% of all high performers.</p>
<p>Why is this? It&#8217;s certainly not because relationships no longer matter in B2B sales&#8211;that would be a naïve conclusion. Rather, what the data tell us is that it is the nature of the relationships that matter. Challengers win by pushing customers to think differently, using insight to create constructive tension in the sale. Relationship Builders, on the other hand, focus on relieving tension by giving in to the customer&#8217;s every demand. Where Challengers push customers outside their comfort zone, Relationship Builders are focused on being accepted into it. They focus on building strong personal relationships across the customer organization, being likable and generous with their time. The Relationship Builder adopts a service mentality. While the Challenger is focused on customer value, the Relationship Builder is more concerned with convenience. At the end of the day, a conversation with a Relationship Builder is probably professional, even enjoyable, but it isn&#8217;t as effective because it doesn&#8217;t ultimately help customers make progress against their goals.</p>
<p>This finding — that Challengers win and Relationship Builders lose — is one that sales leaders often find deeply troubling, because their organizations have placed by far their biggest bet on recruiting, developing, and rewarding Relationship Builders, the profile least likely to win.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s how one of our members in the hospitality industry put it when he saw these results: &#8220;You know, this is really hard to look at. For the past 10 years, it&#8217;s been our explicit strategy to hire effective Relationship Builders. After all, we&#8217;re in the hospitality business. And, for a while, that approach worked well. But ever since the economy crashed, my Relationship Builders are completely lost. They can&#8217;t sell a thing. And as I look at this, now I know why.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>3. Challengers dominate the world of complex &#8220;solution-selling&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>Given the first two findings, it might be reasonable to conclude that Challengers are the down-economy reps and that when things return to normal, Relationship Builders will once again prevail. But our data suggest that this is wishful thinking.</p>
<p>When we cut the data by complexity of sale — that is, separating out transactional, product-selling reps from complex, solution-selling reps — we find that Challengers absolutely dominate as selling gets more complex. Fully 54% of all star reps in a solution-selling environment are Challengers. At the same time, Relationship Builders fall off the map almost entirely, representing only 4% of high-performing reps in complex environments.</p>
<p>Put differently, Challengers win because they&#8217;ve mastered the complex sale, not because they&#8217;ve mastered a complex economy. Your very best sales reps — the ones who carried you through the downturn — aren&#8217;t just the top performers of today but the top performers of tomorrow, as they are far better able to drive sales and deliver customer value in any kind of economic environment. For any company on a journey from selling products to selling solutions — which is a migration that more than 75% of the companies I work with say they are pursuing — the Challenger selling approach represents a dramatically improved recipe for driving top-line growth.</p>
<p>In the next post, we&#8217;ll look at how Challengers teach their customers and how leading companies are equipping their salespeople to do the same.</p>
<p><em>For a graphical summary of our findings,<a href="http://www.executiveboard.com/challenger/bonus-materials/"> click here</a></em></p>
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<h1>South Beach Diet Author On Four Reasons Why America Is Still Getting Fatter And Sicker &#8211; And What to Do About It</h1>
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<p>Americans are fatter, and sicker, than ever. And we don&#8217;t have to be.</p>
<p>We are eating horrendously, moving and exercising less, and not getting enough sleep. This has made us fatigued, depressed, irritable, achy, and generally miserable. And if feeling terrible isn&#8217;t bad enough, these habits are also making us ill&#8211;with diseases like diabetes, heart disease, and many forms of cancer, to name just a few.</p>
<p>What many of us don&#8217;t realize is that these poor lifestyle habits are causing the cells, tissues, and organs in our bodies to &#8220;rust,&#8221; or age before their time, as many of us walk around in a state of constant inflammation.</p>
<p>When your arteries rust, you might develop heart disease or have a stroke. When your brain rusts, you might develop dementia. Sadly, rusting can begin in early childhood, especially among overweight children. Even children as young as 10 years old have been found to have the arteries of 45 year olds. If we stay on this course, our nation&#8217;s health problems, already at epidemic proportions, are only going to get worse.</p>
<p>As a preventive cardiologist, I can tell you that our fast-food, sedentary lifestyle is already trumping the advances in medical science that have been responsible for at least four decades of decreasing death rates from heart disease.</p>
<p>For the first time since I started practicing cardiology more than thirty years ago, heart attacks are on the rise in adults ages 30 to 45, the group I call &#8220;Generation S,&#8221; for the sickest generation. This is the first generation to grow up eating fast food and playing video games. Without immediate intervention, for the first time in modern history we will start to see a reduction in lifespan.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s why we&#8217;re fatter and sicker than ever before and what we can do about it:</p>
<p><strong>1. We eat too many sugary and starchy bad carbohydrates</strong></p>
<p>Bad carbs, also known as simple carbohydrates, are the refined, highly processed sugary and starchy foods&#8211;including refined white flour breads, bagels, rolls, cakes, cookies, crackers, cupcakes, muffins, sugary cereals, chips, pretzels, and so on&#8211;that have had all or most of their natural nutrients and fiber removed.</p>
<p>Because the fiber has been stripped away, simple carbohydrates are rapidly digested and release their energy almost immediately, resulting in exaggerated swings in blood sugar that cause hunger and cravings. Today most Americans eat far too many bad carbs and not enough good carbs, which is one reason we have the epidemics of obesity and diabetes in this country.</p>
<p>What we all need to do is eliminate bad carbs from our diets and replace them with nutrient-dense fiber-rich good carbohydrates&#8211;vegetables, fruits, and whole grains, and plenty of them. Studies consistently bear out that regularly eating whole grains, for example, translates into real-world better-health outcomes.</p>
<p>In fact, one study showed that those who reported eating at least three servings of whole grains daily had 10 percent less visceral (belly) fat than those who reported eating whole grains infrequently. Interestingly, the same study also showed that the fat-busting benefits of whole grains were lost when people ate them along with four or more servings of refined grains daily.</p>
<p><strong>2. We eat too much bad fat</strong></p>
<p>As recently as the 1980s and &#8217;90s, the conventional wisdom was that all fats were bad. Now we know that there are good fats, bad fats, and really bad fats.</p>
<p>The good fats are the polyunsaturated omega-3s and the monounsaturated omega-9s. Omega-3 fatty acids can be found in good amounts in sunflower seeds, walnuts, and flaxseeds, and in their oils, and in fish (particularly oily fish like salmon and herring).</p>
<p>Omega-9 fatty acids (also known as oleic acid) are found in canola, peanut, and olive oils; in avocados; in nuts such as almonds, hazelnuts, peanuts, pistachios, and pecans; and in seeds like pumpkin and sesame.</p>
<p>Numerous studies have documented a link between the consumption of anti-inflammatory omega-9-rich foods and a decreased risk for developing heart disease, asthma, breast cancer, and other cancers, as well as various autoimmune and neurodegenerative diseases believed to be associated with inflammation in the body.</p>
<p>The bad fats are the saturated fats, found predominantly in red meats and full-fat dairy. Saturated fat raises our bad LDL cholesterol and is associated with heart disease, diabetes, and several forms of cancer. When consumed in excess, calories from saturated fat will crowd out the healthier calories from good fats and good carbs from your diet.</p>
<p>The really bad fats are the trans fats, which can be found in stick margarines (but not in most soft tub margarines, now more commonly known as vegetable oil spreads), in foods fried in hydrogenated oils, and in many packaged snack foods containing hydrogenated or partially hydrogenated oils.</p>
<p>Like saturated fats, trans fats raise bad LDL cholesterol levels. But worse than saturated fats, they can also lower the levels of good HDL cholesterol. Researchers have concluded that trans fats increase the risk of heart disease more than any other nutrient on a per-calorie basis, even when consumed in small amounts, and that they may also increase the risk for obesity, diabetes, Alzheimer&#8217;s, and cancer.</p>
<p>While much of the research on good fats and bad fats has focused on their impact on cardiovascular disease and cancer, new studies are continually shedding light on how &#8220;good&#8221; unsaturated fats may also have a beneficial effect on conditions such as osteoporosis, macular degeneration, multiple sclerosis, age-related memory loss, infertility, and other chronic ailments.</p>
<p>This exciting research is in its earliest stages, but what&#8217;s important to remember is that these studies don&#8217;t mean you should run out and start consuming unsaturated fats with abandon. All fats, even the good ones, are calorie-dense and should be consumed in moderation.</p>
<p><strong>3. We sit too much</strong></p>
<p>Today, it is possible to manage our entire lives&#8211;working, playing, shopping, and even socializing&#8211;without ever getting up from our computers.</p>
<p>According to recent statistics, about two-thirds of American adults report that they are physically inactive&#8211;that is, they are sedentary most of the time. And only about 22 percent of American adults say that they do any meaningful exercise at all.</p>
<p>To put this in perspective, the 65 percent of the population that routinely drives instead of walks, sits instead of stands, and rides the elevator instead of taking the stairs is at an increased risk for all the chronic conditions I mentioned above and will ultimately pay a high price in terms of their physical and mental health.</p>
<p>In short, sitting at a computer all day can kill you.</p>
<p>I like to think of fitness as a three-legged stool. The first two legs are cardiovascular conditioning and core strengthening. Doing both types of exercise can take less than half an hour a day of your time, and you will reap enormous health benefits in return.</p>
<p>The third leg of the stool is moving&#8211;that is, making the effort to incorporate more physical activity into your daily life even when you are not exercising. I&#8217;m talking about walking a few blocks instead of driving everywhere, or taking the stairs instead of the elevator, or getting up and walking over to a colleague&#8217;s office instead of sending an email.</p>
<p>These are the kinds of simple, everyday activities that kept human beings healthy before technology rendered getting out of our chairs obsolete.</p>
<p><strong>4. We don&#8217;t get enough quality sleep</strong></p>
<p>Unfortunately, many people still think of sleep as a luxury, not a necessity. According to a Stanford University study, 20 percent of American adults complain of excessive sleepiness during the day due to poor sleep at night.</p>
<p>Lack of sleep does not just leave you groggy the next day; its health implications are much broader. When we chronically miss sleep, we are more vulnerable to a whole slew of physical and emotional problems, including obesity, diabetes, heart disease, stroke, and depression, not to mention a weakened immune system.</p>
<p>This sounds a lot like what happens when we eat badly and don&#8217;t get enough exercise, but it is absolutely true. Sleep is critical for good health.</p>
<p>There is no reason why most people can&#8217;t get a good night&#8217;s sleep, but it may take a bit of effort on your part to get there. Very often, making some simple changes in environment and lifestyle can help resolve typical sleep problems over time.</p>
<p>Start by de-cluttering your bedroom and removing any electronic equipment. Emailing, texting, watching TV, or exercising too close to bedtime can make it difficult to fall asleep.</p>
<p>A comfortable bed is also essential. If your mattress is saggy, lumpy, too hard, or if it&#8217;s more than 7 to 10 years old, it should be replaced. Keep the temperature in the room cool but not too cold&#8211;about 65? to 72?F. And do what you can to make sure your bedroom is quiet and dark at night.</p>
<p>In addition, too much stimulation from nicotine, caffeine, alcohol, or spicy foods can also be problematic. Avoid eating a big meal right before bed, since it can rev up your metabolism. Conversely, going to bed hungry can also interfere with your sleep cycle, so work in a healthy snack that contains some good carbohydrates and protein an hour or two before you hit the sack. Also try to stick to a schedule of going to sleep and waking up at about the same time every day.</p>
<p>Finally, if you or your partner is a snorer or if you think you may have a physical, emotional, or hormonal condition that could be interfering with your ability to sleep well, don&#8217;t hesitate to discuss your concerns with your doctor. The sooner you can work on a strategy to perfect the quality of your sleep, the better. A restorative eight to nine hours every night is your goal.<br />
It&#8217;s now absolutely clear that a healthy lifestyle&#8211;eating a proper diet, losing weight if necessary, and getting plenty of exercise and a good night&#8217;s sleep&#8211;is the surest, safest, best way to prevent the downward spiral that is manifested in our nation being fatter and sicker than ever before. So let&#8217;s do it.</p>
<p>No one expects you to be &#8220;perfect.&#8221; As my mom used to tell me, &#8220;Perfection is paralysis.&#8221;</p>
<p>Just start making healthier lifestyle choices most of the time.<br />
<em>Dr. Agatston&#8217;s latest book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/South-Beach-Wake-Up-Call-Strategies/dp/1605293326/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1317749303&amp;sr=8-1" target="_hplink">The South Beach Wake-Up Call</a>, is an urgent call to action and a life-saving program for reversing the toxic lifestyle that is making Americans fatter and sicker than ever before. Sign Up to Wake Up by <a href="http://www.facebook.com/SouthBeachDiet" target="_hplink">taking the South Beach Diet pledge here</a>.</em></p>
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<p>Im 18, 5&#8217;4, Female, 130lbs. I used to weigh like 127, apparently I&#8217;ve gained these past few weeks. I go to the gym 5 days a week for 90 minutes(sometimes a little more or less) usually doing an hour on treadmill, 45 minutes weights.</p>
<p>Im eating fairly healthy, I practically cut off everything sweet, bad and delicious. I&#8217;ve exchanged the bad for whole foods, even cut out meat this week (but thats cause Im fasting it for a religious reason). But I GAINED!!!</p>
<p>I really want to be 120, but I feel like thats impossible. Lately I havent been doing much weights, only cardio, so it cant be that I gained muscle! I dont know what to do! I think its cause I eat too much. I can eat up to 2000 calories a day if I work hard at the gym! Thats freaking A LOT! Im supposed to be eating 1600 calories a day, but it feels impossible. I feel like im depriving myself.</p>
<p>Yesterday I binged so bad, and I woke up this morning feeling happy that I actually ate normal for once -_-</p>
<p>What food do I have to cut out in order for me to lose weight???? Do i have to workout more??? wtf as if i dont work out enough.. &gt;.&gt;</p>
<p>My usual meals and snacks are <strong>sweet potato</strong>, sometimes grilled chicken (thats the only meat I eat practically), corn, avocado, tomatos, <strong>granola bars</strong>, coffee, beans, yogurt, LOTS OF WATER, <strong>whole wheat bread (a lot)</strong>, turkey burger, lettuce, spinach, salad, exc.These meals are never over 400 calories unless my mom cooks <strong>whole wheat pasta</strong> or something…</p>
<p>HELP ME O_O im desperate. Really desperate. And im not in starvation mode, trust me. Cause I eat a lot.</p>
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<p>Out of the 3 types of foods (carbs, protein and fat), carbs are the most important because they are the body’s main source of energy. They can be easily converted to glucose, the body and brain’s main fuel source. One gram of carbs provides 4 calories of energy for the body.</p>
<p><strong>There are 3 types of carbs in foods:</strong></p>
<p>1. Sugars – simple (glucose, fructose, galactose), disaccharides (maltose, sucrose, lactose). They cause rapid increases and decreases in blood sugar.</p>
<p>2. Starches (complex carbs) – help to maintain stable blood sugar levels as they take longer for the body to convert to sugar. Examples include vegetables, whole grains, legumes and root vegetables.</p>
<p>3. Fibre – found in the skins of foods and coverings of ‘whole grains’ (the actual grain itself). Many are indigestible and help to remove waste and toxins properly via the colon. Examples include psyllium, agar and carrageen.<br />
The average American diet is 50% carbs, which would be good if it consisted of good carbs, but most of this intake is from bread, instant oatmeal, cookies, pasta, cake, cereal, white rice or other packaged goods. Sorry, but Wonder bread and cornflakes fit into this category too! These types of carbs are empty and will actually deplete your B vitamins (eg. Chromium) and have a negative impact on your health with respect to blood pressure and diabetes.</p>
<p><strong>How does the body handle carbs?</strong></p>
<p>Carbs are broken down by the digestive system with the help of enzymes into the simple sugars, glucose, fructose and galactose. These then enter the bloodstream via the small intestine, where they travel to the liver. Here the galactose and fructose are converted to glucose for the body’s fuel.</p>
<p>Your liver helps to regulate how much glucose circulates in your bloodstream. If your intake is higher than what’s needed, the liver will convert and store the glucose as glycogen (stored form of glucose). If you don’t have enough glucose in your blood, the liver will convert the glycogen back to glucose and release it in the blood stream. If you consume/have more sugar in your blood than the liver can store, the liver will convert the glucose to triglycerides and fat. This can result in weight gain.</p>
<p>How does this relate to hyper/hypoglycemia and type 2 Diabetes? I’ll try to explain this part as best I can. When you eat a pizza/bread/muffin (mainly refined carbs), your body will convert the carbs to glucose too quickly; therefore raising the amount of sugar in your blood. The body will send a signal (via the hormone Insulin) to lower the level of sugar in the blood. Then when the levels suddenly get too low, the liver releases more glucose into the blood (from the stored glycogen). The next time you eat this way, it happens again. When this type of activity happens repeatedly, the body begins acting like a yo-yo. It becomes tired and won’t be able to maintain blood sugar levels or provide energy to the cells and brain. As a result, the sugar accumulates in the blood stream and urine; you become tired, leading to Hyper/Hypoglycemia and eventually Diabetes. That’s why proper diet is essential!<br />
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DID YOU KNOW:</strong></p>
<p>• Symptoms of hypoglycemia include: sweating, confusion, palpitations, hunger pangs, irritability, anxiety, nervousness, shaking, weakness, numb or tingling lips<br />
• Symptoms of hyperglycemia or diabetes include: fatigue, excessive urination, extreme thirst, constant hunger, eyesight problems, itchy skin, tingling in hands/feet, nausea<br />
• Your diet should consist of 60% complex carbs, 15-20% protein and 20-25% good fats – forget high protein diets<br />
• Too few carbs can result in brain fog</p>
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		<title>Colorado Gambling&#8212;There From the Beginning</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[A great look at the town that changed overnight. We opened the Wild Card on the first day of gambling and it&#8217;s been a great ride. If you have additional questions about how it all happened contact me with the expanded story. This post mostly talks about what happened after gambling was passed. There is…]]></description>
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<h1>A great look at the town that changed overnight. We opened the Wild Card on the first day of gambling and it&#8217;s been a great ride. If you have additional questions about how it all happened contact me with the expanded story. This post mostly talks about what happened after gambling was passed. There is more to the story when you consider the road to legalization.</h1>
<p>I&#8217;m in the red shirt at the signing of the Colorado Gambling Bill in Gov. Roy Romer&#8217;s office. 1991</p>
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<h1>THEN AND NOW — A look back at the past 20 years of gaming in Colorado</h1>
<p>by EDITORIAL on <abbr title="2011-09-27">SEPTEMBER 27, 2011</abbr></p>
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<p><strong>By Linda Jones</strong></p>
<div id="attachment_6792"><a href="http://coloradogambler.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/1.Black-Hawk.jpg"><img title="1.Black-Hawk" src="http://coloradogambler.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/1.Black-Hawk-300x202.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="202" /></a>Before Colorado approved Amendment 4 to allow Limited Gaming in Black Hawk, Central City and Cripple Creek, this is what the center of Black Hawk looked like. Photo courtesy of the City of Black Hawk&nbsp;</p>
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<p>Oct. 1, 1991, was the Big Day. Media and press came from across the nation to photograph the beginning of Limited Gaming in three mountain mining communities in Colorado: <a href="http://www.centralcitycolorado.com/" target="_blank">Central City</a>, <a href="http://www.cityofblackhawk.org/" target="_blank">Black Hawk</a>and <a href="http://www.cripple-creek.co.us/" target="_blank">Cripple Creek</a>. Central City was considered the prize at that time because of its nationally-known opera festival and tourist appeal. Black Hawk was the unknown, rundown town tourists drove through to visit Central City. <a href="http://www.colorado.gov/revenue/gaming" target="_blank">Amendment 4</a> was born and nurtured in Central City as an answer to the need for funds to restore the incomparable Victorian architecture. Both Black Hawk and Cripple Creek were only written into Amendment 4, allowing Limited Gaming, when their towns’ leaders requested they be included and agreed to come up with their shares of the funds necessary to mount a campaign to win over voters.</p>
<p>Colorado’s voters had overwhelmingly approved Amendment 4 in November 1990, despite the hostility of Gov. Roy Romer to the new business. The appeal of casinos within a short drive of the state’s largest cities was undeniable.</p>
<div id="attachment_6826"><a href="http://coloradogambler.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/central-city-old.jpg"><img title="central-city-old" src="http://coloradogambler.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/central-city-old-300x205.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="205" /></a>In Central City, the Smaldone brothers owned a casino in the 1930 – early 1950 era. Photo courtesy of Gilpin County Historical Society&nbsp;</p>
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<p>Amendment 4 imposed strict limits on the new casinos: bets over $5 would not be allowed, casino hours were limited to between 8 a.m. and 2 p.m. and only three games were allowed – poker, slots and blackjack. The original plan of the amendment’s Central City writers was that only 35 percent of the square footage of a building would be allowed to contain gaming. They envisioned a few slots sitting in all the shops, bars and restaurants. That dream was crushed when the enabling legislation was written, stating that only the actual square footage under slots or tables would be included as gaming.  That allowed all the other necessary areas that accompany gaming, such as aisles, cashiers cages, offices, customer service desks, restrooms, ATM machines, break rooms and food service areas to be counted in the 65 percent non-gaming, with the result that buildings could be 100 percent casinos.</p>
<div id="attachment_6796"><a href="http://coloradogambler.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/4.Central-City-SUMMER-MAINST.jpg"><img title="4.Central-City--SUMMER-MAINST" src="http://coloradogambler.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/4.Central-City-SUMMER-MAINST.jpg" alt="" width="280" height="374" /></a>Central City 2011 has eight casinos and tons of shops and restaurants to keep everyone in the family busy and happy. Photo by Linda Jones&nbsp;</p>
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<p>On that anticipated First Day of Gaming – Oct. 1, 1991 – only seven casinos were open. More would open during October, but only seven were open on that notable day: the Teller House Casino, Long Branch, Baby Doe’s, Annie Oakley’s and the Gilded Garter in Central City; and the Gold Mine and Wild Card in Black Hawk. Long Branch wasn’t certified by the Division of Gaming to open at 8 a.m. that day and by the time they were allowed to open, shortly after 10 a.m., a huge crowd blocked Main Street waiting for the key to turn.<br />
On that historic day, two of the biggest supporters of limited gaming were mayors of the host cities: Bruce Schmalz in Central City and Bill Lorenz in Black Hawk. Remember those early years? Coupon books were given out freely, children could frequently be seen nodding beside a slot machine and parking was in remote parking lots served by shuttles. Silver tokens were minted by each casino that could be used in any of the casinos in town, bringing a new job to the area. A company was started, employing several people, to collect from each casino the “foreign” tokens, count them and return them to the proper casino. All the casinos in both Black Hawk and Central City were small and in historic buildings.</p>
<p>But the potential was obvious. The original owners, mostly local, were courted with attractive offers from casino corporations, which then built larger casinos, mostly in Black Hawk. Parking garages were built adjacent to individual casinos, and the casinos themselves now included multiple restaurants, including fine-dining establishments.</p>
<div id="attachment_6831"><a href="http://coloradogambler.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/EXTRA.Ameristar.jpg"><img title="EXTRA.Ameristar" src="http://coloradogambler.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/EXTRA.Ameristar-224x300.jpg" alt="" width="224" height="300" /></a>Ameristar is the largest of the casinos and hotels in Black Hawk and is very noticeable when you enter the town.&nbsp;</p>
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<p>Children sitting bored or sleeping on the gaming floors while their parents gambled were an irritant to many gamblers in the early years. One such gambler was a state legislator who proposed legislation, adopted in 2002, which prohibited anyone younger than 21, already prohibited from gambling, from even “lingering” in a gaming area. Several casinos then began banning anyone younger than 21 from entering, while others allow those younger than 21 to patronize their restaurants or hotels, but prevent them from entering the “gaming floor.” Look on the casino doors for the individual casino policies.</p>
<p>Bullwhackers built a wonderful indoor children’s play area, which was a favorite of local and visiting children, but the facility’s revenue didn’t support it. After it closed, the casino moved its offices into the cavernous building behind the casino. Easy Street opened an arcade in its basement, which is still open today. The access to it is through an outside door into an elevator that accesses only the arcade.<br />
When Colorado allowed casinos they were still a rarity, but other states swiftly followed. The $5 limit began to discourage gamblers and Amendment 50 was adopted by the state’s voters on Nov. 4, 2008. This more reasonable law allowed all casino games, including craps and roulette, allowed 24 hours of operation and allowed bets up to $100 IF the individual gambling cities’ voters approved. All three cities adopted these new regulations, which took effect on July 2, 2009. Amendment 50 helped minimize the sting of the more stringent no-smoking rules the state legislature approved on July 2, 2006.</p>
<p>The gaming business employs thousands of people in the state that include jobs with full benefits. Many visions of golf courses, theme parks and planned communities around the gambling cities have crumbled through the years, but a large apartment complex and a condominium community have been built near Central City and annexed into the city.</p>
<p><a href="http://coloradogambler.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/casinoListings.jpg"><img title="casinoListings" src="http://coloradogambler.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/casinoListings-446x1024.jpg" alt="" width="343" height="789" /></a>Lodging, once non-existent, is now plentiful in the Gilpin County communities, with hotels in Century Casino, Fortune Valley, Isle Casino Hotel Black Hawk, Lady Luck, the Lodge and Ameristar. The top-rated entertainment once presented in the large ballrooms included in the Riviera and the Isle casinos is now history; those ballrooms were phased out in favor of office space and larger restaurants respectively. But top bands appear regularly on weekends in the bars of the large casinos.</p>
<p>Family activities can be found with little effort too. In the summer, many museums and tours are available in Central City and one of these, Washington Hall, stays open year-round. The guide there will, when asked, give tours beyond the summer season of the Teller House, Opera House and Thomas House.  A mine tour is open in Central City in the summer and a working mine, the Hidee, just a few miles outside Central City is also open in the summer for tours.</p>
<p>Despite the common misconception, there are still shops in Central City. The biggest collection of artists’ creations imaginable is in the Mountain Menagerie on Main Street. Approximately 60 artists display their various skills in this Main Street building across from Easy Street. Just a few feet down Main Street is Bevy Sue’s Emporium.  Shoppers will find an antique store, the Visitors Center and Ermel’s Thrift Store on Eureka Street across from the Teller House.</p>
<p>Outdoor enthusiasts can find many hiking and biking paths, often on right of ways created for the historic railroads. Railroad enthusiasts particularly enjoy exploring the original Gilpin Tram right of way, and mining historians treasure the many mine drainage tunnels in and around Central City. Four campgrounds are close to Black Hawk and Central City: the Dory Hill Campground, KOA campground and two in the national forest, Columbine and Cold Springs. The bonanza of old mining roads makes for memorable four-wheeling and hiking, and visiting the historic cemeteries is popular year-around.</p>
<p>Plentiful employment within the county is a definite benefit of this boom. The county’s population has grown since 1991, although slowly, as the residents clearly want slow and measured growth. Gaming and property taxes have benefited the county as well as the cities. The county now offers a state-of-the art recreation center, a new justice center and a wonderful library. Perhaps the biggest gain to the county is increased income for the school district. Black Hawk passed a small sales tax in 2008 that goes 100 percent to the Gilpin District School. Since the tax inception in January 2009, the school has received an extra $1,510,725 above and beyond property tax revenue. In an era of school budget-slashing across the state, the county’s small school, less than 400 students from K-12, is expanding teacher salaries, teacher training and classroom amenities.</p>
<p>Gaming brought many changes to Gilpin County, without a doubt, but the history of the county is one of booms, busts and booms again.</p>
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